This Beyond Interior Design podcast episode explores the transformative power of manifestation. We’ll be talking about the role of language in shaping our reality, and the current global shift in consciousness. It also delves into how interior designers can balance their creative flow, and offers insights on unlocking the power of your thoughts. We overcome limiting beliefs about money and embrace challenges as opportunities for growth.
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This Beyond Interior Design podcast episode explores the transformative power of manifestation. We’ll be talking about the role of language in shaping our reality, and the current global shift in consciousness. It also delves into how interior designers can balance their creative flow, and offers insights on unlocking the power of your thoughts. We overcome limiting beliefs about money and embrace challenges as opportunities for growth.
Go to: beyondinteriordesign.CLUB
yeah I must I must honestly say though that I don't believe there's any universal forces working against you never I 100 believe in um and then we are almost already getting into it but what I call uh pronoia ever heard of that term nope so pronoia is the opposite of paranoia
so the paranoia the definition of paranoia is that you know everything works against you right like oh there's people after me and what are they gonna do and it's constant fear state where pronoia is the state of everything works for you everything is just a continuous gift that is being given to you [Music] thank you [Music] manifesting a life on your own terms what does it mean living on your own dreams and what's well it can mean different things to each individual we Define it as follows people we choose to create the wrong path instead of following someone else but the creators in life instead of the reactors to life people who desire to be more to do more and to live more and you are the designer in all of this if you love want a life that you deserve this podcast will help you to make you aware of what it might looks like the guidance one of the things you can do to get there and if you have Clarity on this I can promise you you'll be amazed what you can attract time to take your dreams seriously so today in the beyond the terrorism podcast we have the special guest one guest I promise you to but today um uh he's here by his own and I'm very excited to have him uh they are entering designers no they're not they are designers yes he is a designer definitely he's a live designer a live Transformer and he knows exactly how to work with the universe there are experts in the field of manifestation and mindfulness mindset so um he is one of the proud founders of the law of attraction in the Netherlands but right now live from Colombia CeCe please welcome
welcome thank you so much man what an introduction that that put a grin on my face that's beautiful well done I'd be very happy to be here indeed from Colombia yeah you too I'm excited what are you doing Colombia yeah so I actually arrived here about three weeks ago to go to a uh Joseph benza event which actually uh is a uh Dr Joe dispenser is a guy who puts a beautiful bridge between science and spiritual spirituality so of course I'm continuously learning to also improve my own life and then through that lives of others and it's actually a beautiful beautiful story as well because I was sitting in a umassena which is like a Meditation Retreat for 10 days you meditate 12 hours per day and then on day six there was this moment of intense commitment that I had of like I want to go to Dr Joe dispenza because I already wanted to go there for three years but his Retreats with 1600 people are sold out within one day and I was always too late with looking at the um the email that would come in that would say hey the sign ups are open right now yeah so having that issue of never being able to sign up and always being on a wait list I I on day six of this event or this Retreat I decided you know what I am gonna go to Dr Joe dispenza I'm on the wait list for Mexico but you know what I'm just gonna go there I'm just gonna go I'm gonna get in I made this this commitment to go and then the day after I came out of this fibasana Retreat I checked my email and only two hours ago the new signups had started and I was so excited I was like I clicked on it and I saw oh no wait list I can sign up like a little kid I was so excited I was like okay I'm gonna I'm gonna go and do this and so I I signed myself up paid the the the price to go to the to Dr Joe dispenser's event and then afterwards I checked where it was in the world because I just wanted to go there so I was like so excited and then it's like oh Cartagena I think there's a Cartagena in Spain maybe it's in Spain and I checked oh no it's in Colombia okay well I guess I'm going to Colombia a few miles Florida exactly so in that sense the way that I concluded that is that the Universe actually shows me then in that moment okay you made this commitment you want to go like the power behind it is so strong but we'll give you an easier option than going to Mexico and being on a wait list not sure if you can get in we'll give you an easier an option what if you just go to Colombia yeah great yeah yeah an opportunity yeah you took it yeah one more you created it almost yeah yeah I love that almost yeah no no you're a True Believer sorry yeah yeah you really have you have to convince me in some part because okay the everybody a lot of people know the law of attraction that that's yeah well let's let's I I can explain it lightly this invisible something how to get grip on it you know it's there but what you need to do with it so it sounds familiar to a lot of us but maybe well I saw the Netflix documentary The Secret and uh well a lot of people were talking about it and uh made fun of it because uh it's like uh hey you want a red Ferrari just wait for it and the Ferrari is going yeah now the people that I really don't like this stuff this was the story uh what what was be told so uh for a lot of people is abracadabra and then you explain me actually what Abracadabra means so maybe that's a really cool interaction of uh what you are doing yeah that's a beautiful Bridge yeah indeed the secret is a is a movie where sometimes it feels a little bit too much like the focus is like you just do this and it's and it's there you know um but indeed and that that makes it feel like an Abracadabra experience but in old Hebrew like really old Hebrew Abracadabra stands for as I speak I create as I speak I create how cool and so your words have the impact of changing the world and of course your words come forth out of your thoughts the thoughts that you think and so your thoughts are creating your reality it's the essence of that yeah to make it to make it even more funny uh in English it works really well because Abracadabra a lot of people probably many of you associated with this thing of like magic right it's it's I'm casting a spell and there's magic but if you then think about the actual definition of your words create your reality and you think about the word if you want to say a word letter for letter what is that Mark what do you call that doing that spelling yeah spelling casting a spell aha language has so much depth in it and it's so beautiful to to discover as well yeah and so much truth we have yes we have a long long history with Mother Earth and we've got a lot I I that's mildly we we have so many things we don't know anymore probably we knew it before but we don't work with it we don't listen to it we don't feel is it is that what it what's it yeah what we are yeah describe this how do you describe this this time that we are living right now because it's it has well if we talk about design we are going now to biophilic design like really getting back to Nature and I feel that feel Mother Earth I need all the elements and plans and Greenery we we know is that is that the hype well there is a yeah there's a big high strength going on in this then big Trend yeah going on with this with this nature feeling this earthy thing instead of all this artificial technology stuff which is the other world which is going on at the same time so we exactly have more connection I guess but but tell me what's what what kind of time are we living in right now how do you yeah well I find that I find that very very fascinating to hear that that it's like because I'm not in the interior design world as you introduced me already so it's funny to understand that actually this shift which I'm experiencing in Consciousness throughout the world uh which is happening on this level of uh spirituality and people getting indeed closer in contact with their feeling and their intuition and yes it's still a smaller portion of the world at the moment but I have full confidence confidence and I feel like I'm seeing that it's growing and growing um is also being expressed in the sense of interior design and that that's also more closer to Nature and intuitiveness and that's that's amazing to hear but yeah I fully believe that that we're actually in a shift from being very um stuck in our heads very stuck in our minds thinking a lot about things and and trying to figure out like pros and cons list of what is the best option to do and you know if we if I want to go home then going straight here is the best Direction because then I can go over the bridge and then I'm home and that's the fastest way to get home so of course I'm gonna do that but then sometimes we have this inner feeling suddenly that tells us like oh but wait if I go straight here I feel like I want to go right actually but that doesn't make any sense because the bridge is way faster than if I go right here I have to go all the way around so maybe you listen to your head and you decide to go straight and then you arrive at the bridge and the bridge is broken so you can't go over it so you need to go back and go back to that place where you were feeling that you needed to go right and that's that's what I call intuition and whatever you call that it's some kind of um higher self the universe your subconscious something that is connected to some kind of field and we like to explain it by the quantum field that is actually giving you insights through a deeper layer of of knowing and feeling and if we follow that it's like we step in the into the the river and we're able to flow along with it and everything just happens to us and things are attracted and you can maybe say like oh but these people are so lucky they're so lucky that things just happen to them and and no that's that's when you're listening to your intuition that's when you what you also said having something that you really want so clearly defined and you're listening to the the little synchronicities in the moments that happen around you that allow you to actually step on that path and follow it yeah yeah well if you are if you you're talking to designers and Architects we know we know what flow is because when we are in a creative process in our own world we literally shape the whole world in our heads we visualize worlds that are not yet even there so that's that's that sounds like the easy part of working with visualizations and and manifesting stuff because that's what we do it starts with it one line and then there's all these ideas and feelings and thinking about the world how the world could be and then you are a little we are literally building it for other people or maybe for yourself so that's that's that's uh that's a cool part and all this intuition stuff that's that's well most of the time we call that we call that feelings and it's hard to deal with it because we have clients with the role their own intuitions and feelings that's that's the most hard these are two worlds you need to join those two worlds of your the world of your clients and your own your own world with all this all these frequencies so um well the thing is you told me everything is energy so how how can we how can you work with this different energies that we have to because we are working we were working with our clients we need to design we need to to know what makes them tick we know that we need to get to the core as fast as deep as good as possible so how how can we work with those Energies so how can you work with the energies of the people that you're working with or what is what related to what to related to what do you mean well if you well you have you have a goal to accomplish to create the most beautiful design for your clients and we are in well a lot of creatives and Designs they are in their own world and we know on it by Feeling by intuition we know that this is the best thing for them but sometimes they don't know we have to educate the client on that on that part but maybe you have some yeah I'm really curious if you have some kind of ideas or tricks or tools how you can work with the energy in the room if you you are doing uh events for a lot of people live events you have 300 people over 300 people in one group with all the different Energies how do you cope with that so definitely the first important thing is to be in tune with yourself to be fully in the present moment you know it's such a it can be cliche sometimes but when you are being present instead of being your in your head thinking about all sorts of things and I guess the application of that would be if you have some ideas that you were actually thinking of giving to your client in in the design world and then you come you arrive there and they present a different type of energy than that you were feeling before but you're still stuck on your on your plan and your design you're not being present you're in your head with your plan so in that moment it's very important to be able to also like okay president means no a place of nowhere no thing and this is something I learned as well from Dr Joe dispenza um you know no there's nothing there there's just awareness and when you arrive in that place of pure presence you become more aware of energies because in your head there's no there's no awareness of that you need to really feel your your body is that internal compass that is allowing you to actually tune into different kinds of of Energies and so then when you are actually being able to be present and you start asking the questions that I'm sure you're teaching uh uh like like that you're teaching Mark uh together with Sven then you actually get a new present state of energy because maybe the energy that you had from your client two weeks before yeah is already completely changed because something happened yep right so so there needs to be that ability to be present and then go from there again instead of being like well but I put so much work into this design and now I need to push this thing through it's like no why did you start doing that work did you do it just to get your designs to be pushed through or are you actually trying to help people here ah wonderful yeah you have to you have the answer Reuben sorry for the foreign
no okay so be be present not in the flow because that's that's the thing if you are really enthusiastic about your design you go in with your own flow and what you like you said it could be two weeks later three weeks later for some people almost uh two months later you are presenting that thing you are on a way other level or another frequency in your head yeah and not being able to see what's really going on in the present so that's what you call the heart the feeling exactly yeah exactly and I would say if it is two months away then it's better to have some more contact moments along the way through whatever phone or Zoom calls so that you can continuously get in tune with the energy of your client and provide them like the thing that they are looking for okay yeah great so so yeah to to make a stronger literally a stronger connection that's it you're making a stronger connection because they're sending out because your thoughts are are a certain frequency as well and so you can say it like that that you're not your thoughts probably many of your people many of your followers have heard that sentence before as well you're not your thoughts um some people say you have your thoughts I even say you receive your thoughts because your head is like a a radio tuner and so you're tuning into a specific radio frequency of thoughts how do you know which you're tuned into by the emotion that you're experiencing by the focus that you're putting your attention on so if you have your attention placed on on the client and you're having a certain feeling with that client and then you tune into specific thought frequency that can be very similar to the thought frequency that they are tuned into and how do we sometimes experience this when we for example say the exact same word at the same time or when someone you know suddenly says something you're like I was just thinking about that thing yeah or someone calls you up whilst you were just thinking about about them it's all frequency everything we see here the air the things around us my body everything is just Adam's shaking and and our thoughts and our our hearts sending out also this electromagnetic field which is actually having an influence around the world and we have seen that because there's this study that has been done where more than a million people at the same time around the world were meditating at the exact same moment and what they noticed in the the Schumann resonance which is a frequency that is visible in the electromagnetic field of the earth it actually shifted it's signs you can imagine it's science it's yeah it's measured right yeah it actually changed due to the these amount of people that were actually meditating together wow and so they were just collectively tuning into this frequency and that's why in our trainings we often you know we have at least 100 people in the training often because then when you're doing a meditation together the impact of it is phenomenal and I'm sure you've known if you've experienced the same thing with uh with the events of Tony Robbins right yeah yeah you know I've been there through a lot of trainings yeah in uh this summer there's a live event in Birmingham the first life but even through Zoom with 16 000 people almost 20 000 in a zoo goal and then visualization meditation or whatever I was I'm still getting Goosebumps if I think about that because I was it was not imaginable that this could have the same effect I was really like okay you know well let's do a live event but I prefer unless they do an online event I prefer live but let's see what's going on and it will long days but with all this energy from all around the world almost 180 countries well I wish I wish I saw them the measure uh that machine that could measure the vibe because then but you know it's true you can feel it you have all the emotions uh so you know at least it's your own reality so uh yeah it works great yeah and although the the and although the science can be really nice and also in ways to explain it to people that are still more in their heads and are not feeling it as much yeah at the same time indeed it really does only matter the way that you feel about it even if like you believe like we were talking a little bit before we started about the fact that I believe that everything happens for me right yeah um so so just imagine that's not to you not to you yeah right not to you not against you even if that's like not true or some somehow you know I I know it to be true because I've gone so deep in meditations that I arrive in this space of pure love and I know that the only safety net that we can always fall into if we let ourselves go is love but hey if you haven't experienced that I can imagine you don't believe that reality may be fully yet but it is helping to have a reality like that even if it's if it wouldn't be fully true and and why why do I say that because for example two weeks ago I mean I am in Colombia and I guess I was experiencing a bit of a contrast as I would I would call it um by walking on the street back to my apartment which was like a small 10-minute walk and I did that every day but suddenly there was two guys on a motorcycle and the the guy on the back he he jumps off of the motorcycle he points a gun at me and he wanted my phone and he wanted my stuff and my first reaction my fight flight was fight for fight or flight response was to run away so I started running but then I I kind of fell down on the ground somehow and then he came to me and he actually hit me on the on the head with the gun and I started bleeding and I would try to run away again and then there were a couple of locals actually seeing it happen so they were screaming and they were coming running so the guys got scared they jumped on the motorbike and they and they drove off um and although you know this kind of experience sounds really really intense and yes there there are some some moments that it comes back to me in a a little bit of a I'm a bit more cautious in certain ways especially being here in Colombia um I 20 minutes later I asked myself how did I create this reality because I 100 believe that I create my own reality and if I attract a situation like that it is because I am learning certain lessons for it and with it and if I'm taking those lessons out of it it's going to help me to actually not continue living in that state of fear of it might happen again because no it's not just gonna happen again it happened because it needed to happen because there was something in my field that needed attention in that way can you tell me more about that what what kind of attention are you meaning because it's it's definitely is it because you had some fear about going on on the streets alone with no no I I did not consciously have any of the fear but what I did take out of it is that my mission in this world to you know the it's really easy if you walk on the street and you're able to speak to someone randomly on the street and you can ask them like hey do you believe that you create your own reality that they all say duh of course you know that that's just the standard of of our reality of our society that's my mission and that mission is big I really want to live that mission in so many ways and so what does the I'm sending that vibration out very intensely on a daily basis right so the the the formula for manifestation quite important something if if we're gonna actually manifest in a good way is that we have need to have a clear intention you have to send out a clear intention consistently so not just once but consistently and that intention isn't just the thoughts it isn't just seeing the picture of having all those dream clients that want to have your designs you know come to you and just just only seeing that you really need to feel it as if it's already happening so the formula for your reality is the consistent thoughts that you're thinking times the emotional coherence that you're experiencing with it how much are you feeling the thing that you're having an intention on there's a combination of body and Minds is it yeah yeah that's it that's it because your mind your thoughts are electrically um charged that you're sending out your heart is magnetically charged so you're sending out the thought and with the heart you're attracting the thing towards you because every situation that you desire that you can think of is already existing within the quantum field it says if you have all sorts of parallel universes it already exists now all that you need to do is are you able to tune into the version of you that has achieved for example all those clients on a daily basis that are coming to you and that's why it's so amazing that we have of course the skill of of visualization because we can tune ourselves into it right now and experience it right now as well yeah is this an exercise you're doing every day to start your day yep yeah sometimes yeah yeah mostly mostly the start of the day I do sometimes a little bit different stuff uh in the morning uh it depends a little bit on what frequency I'm in so I prefer to tune myself into a a potential as you could call it a potential future situation when I'm in the best frequency possible because if I'm tuning into a potential when I'm not feeling good what happens in my mind yeah what happens is that I'm thinking well that's never going to happen that's not going to work I'm never going to attract a situation like that right so yeah so I I'm very careful like okay if I'm not starting the morning too well or if I'm having some kind of a I don't know what I'm off in some way I usually start with doing some some breath work exercises for example and I just meditate on being in the space and then I tune my frequency up and then later I go into uh tuning into future potentials ah good to hear because these are a few of mine lessons too that I really wanted to have in some kind of we call it the morning morning manners uh that's why he has my every day you start the your day in the same way but you don't start today in in the same way you have all kinds of different energies different seasons different days different weather all kinds of influences your family your friends are your holiday or at home so I was like sometimes it feels it felt forced to meditate or visualize every day and then once again maybe I just need to go outside for a walk a fresh air I need to sport or so I really changed that and I saw I see a lot of people in my uh close by friends as well they are forcing themselves every day to start this ritual and you see them kind of fighting with it I'm like just just do whatever you want if you're if you feel in the flow to create a new video or to to you want to design or whatever start with that and then deep in the flow is that is the best way to work work with those energies because it's a kind of intuition thing is it yeah there's a lot of nuances to it but but I what I do feel with what you're sharing right now is that in our in our trainings we have a training called living in abundance and what living and abundance is is indeed all about also accepting your present reality and being okay with what is right now uh so so yes in that sense I agree with being able to follow the flow and feel like okay what is it that I can move myself into right now yeah and at the same time of course our body is sometimes going to give certain adverse reactions and then our response from our mind is to run away our response is to I don't want to feel this feeling so we turn on Netflix or you know we we try to distract ourselves yeah you said it's running I literally go running but I don't feel well yeah and the question is is that a is that a distraction or is that actually a tool to get yourself into a higher frequency State and the way that you know that is because how you feel afterwards if you're doing the Netflix thing then maybe you know after an hour of watching you're like uh yeah yeah yeah exactly and and so it it the important focus is raise your frequency use your I I never use my willpower in the uh in the outside world I use my willpower solely for increasing my frequency because the higher in frequency the more easy it is is to listen to intuition the easier it is to receive inspiration which is also another beautiful word in spirit to be in spirit to be inspired to have it flow through you and go into that flow State I only use my my willpower to get into that high frequency and then I relax and I open myself with my intention and then either some inspiration flows through and I start you know maybe the people with interior design you start having this idea and suddenly you have this entire beautiful concept worked out within half an hour for the for this client where you were not able to get into with your mind whilst you were trying to do it for like two months straight right suddenly you have it within half an hour and it's out there
you are awake in the middle of the night and you you need to feel you have to write something down and you can't I had a well I'm glad I don't have as many nights as I did but two years a few years ago I had a lot of nights when we were working on our whole program and trainings and I was so much in the flow and and I I woke up in the night at sometimes four o'clock and then I I was like okay this set this is a cool sentence this is a cool sentence I start writing and then I find myself with Daylights three hours later I was like oh no it's seven o'clock and my my boys were getting down we had to eat breakfast I was like okay now I need to take a nap but there was so much going on in those three hours no time experience no that that's right kind of magical is it yeah yeah where do those thoughts come from Mark those thoughts where they come from yeah that's a good question yeah right well some somewhere no I have no clue yeah you have the answer yeah so the the infinite potentials are always there and what through our experience we get to have certain contrasting experiences that give us a new ability to tune into a new frequency and and thought is frequency so we can tune into those uh new thoughts as well which are related to Our intention related to the experiences that we've had in life so the moment that I had that gun to my head and I was experiencing suddenly this this this this fear and this feeling of like wow okay actually you know there there was a chance that I I could have gotten shot you know and I it could have been the end of my life and there was this huge amount of gratitude for being alive which is still with me today where I'm able to look at my surroundings and be like wow this is such a a beautiful world that we're living in and I'm feeling so connected to it and when I'm in that that frequency then then I realized that everything that we we live in our reality is related to our frequency and to our to our thought you can walk on a street and you can feel amazing and maybe on the other side of the street someone you know is is being robbed or something's happening and you might just not see it because you're so high in your frequency that you can't even it's not part of your your field you know and that's why we all create our own reality there's not such a objective reality there's just a reality that we're continuously creating based on the frequencies that we tune into and thus the the thoughts that we're receiving and then to answer further if you have a clear intention of maybe you went to bed the night before and you really wanted to you had this determination of what I really want to figure out what to do for this specific client and then you you fall asleep in your brain actually when you go to sleep goes from beta which is your daily active brainwave state to Alpha and then to the Theta which makes you more and more receptive when you sleep you're in in Delta and that state is so there's so little resistance your mind is not active right because your prefrontal cortex is sleeping in that moment so and you experience literally being in a space of No Time nowhere no space um and then when you're actually having that moment that you wake up you come back into into Theta State now you're so open and receptive that you can receive those frequencies those thoughts that are related to the intention that you set the night before and therefore now suddenly within a indeed for three hours you're writing you're like oh [ __ ] it's like it's time to have breakfast yeah indeed yeah yeah and so I think the the thing is a lot of people they start the day with great intentions but you know right now you're explaining some kind of power that the when you set the set your intentions at the end of the day before you go to sleep your mind is doing a lot of work for you yeah yep that's why it's also so powerful to for example listen to affirmations when you go to sleep yeah I remember I started listening to this uh abundance affirmations every night for three weeks and then suddenly a lot of money started flowing and I didn't change anything in my Approach yeah because you're so receptive in that moment because you're sleeping but still the the input is coming in and like it's input like I'm abundant I'm wealthy I have everything that I need and there is no mind that is actually listening to it and thinking no that's not true I don't have abundance I'm not wealthy what is this woman talking about on this affirmation no no it's the brief on the cortex not there so the thing is going directly with through the subconscious and therefore you're reprogramming your mind because who you are your your your personality is nothing else but just a collection of all the experiences that you've had in the past that you've identified yourself with yeah and that's and that's what you call your personal reality as as Dr Joe dispenza also calls it and when we are actually able to realize that many of those programs that we're living are just coming from our childhood when you know we had a little conversation with Sven also before where the first seven years of your life you're like a sponge everything is just coming in you're a lot in Theta you don't have that much beta brainwave yet so everything is coming in so everything your parents tell you everything your surrounding tells you continuously just arrives within your subconscious and becomes your reality you know we that's why we like as a kid you remember thinking like oh my parents are like gods they know everything right but they don't and and so you receive all these subconscious programs that also they have just picked up somewhere and all their traumas that that you've picked up from from them and so we need to change that if we want to change our reality because we're continuously sending out a frequency that is keeping us in the reality that we're living in right now so if that frequency is you know um money doesn't grow on a tree it's it's a it's one that I I heard from my father when I was young I couldn't have certain things because I think this money just grows on a tree you can't just buy that for you so that became my reality and so it was difficult for me to attract money because that belief was in the in the way of it and at one point I in a meditation I felt this belief coming up and I was just thinking about it like yeah but money doesn't grow on a tree so if I'm like wait a second it doesn't even make sense I mean apples grow on trees and apples I can buy in a store so money does grow on trees and and that was already just a little moment of Shifting that program to a new reality yeah yeah I found that new reality is a new vibrational frequency and therefore a new reality you're attracting as well yeah yeah it's the same with like uh you need to work hard you need to work hard to earn money yeah and even my my father uh had this kind of reality and uh but his brother didn't and they had the same they had the same father so but they they they gotta they created two realities of the same with the same dad and it was so funny a few years ago we had a discussion I said what did my grandpa told you about about money about working about well uh no yeah well there were these two realities I was I was surprised and that's that's the science behind your story it's you create your own reality you hear what you want to hear and then you are feeling it and these are your thoughts these are your frequencies and then well most of the time you attract what you believe exactly yeah exactly so what about and that's it that's why just to just to to close it off together with the story I was telling about the the the the the pistol on my face yeah um that's that's kind of where also the story comes in of everything works for you you're sending out intentions like I said I have this in a beautiful mission that I want to achieve in my life and then I get confronted with this reality of a gun to my face and I realized 20 minutes afterwards I'm okay I'm I'm actually doing quite well I see this reality I'm like oh I can actually have a gun to my face and I'm actually still doing quite all right I didn't know I was going to respond like that but then it came with this newfound belief of but if I can handle a gun to my face I can do so much more oh my gosh my mission is so big I can actually start doing this and there's all these little fears that were in the way becomes so intensely small because this big fear of having a gun to my face was over I overcame already um which wasn't active consciously but subconsciously somewhere that made this fear might have been active right so yeah overcame that so wow and then we realized that there's only two options in life one option is that things happen the way that you want them to happen and you can enjoy that or the second one you get to enjoy that you still have something to learn
because let's be honest if you could snap your fingers and get everything you want just in that in that moment of the snap how much fun would you have in receiving the thing that you're receiving when you do that maybe once twice three times you're like oh wow a new car wow uh a lot of clients oh wow amazing love and now suddenly you're like okay but this kind of gets boring everything is just happening we came here on Earth I fully believe that to experience the contrast to have this journey this path so that we could come to the point and when you do after such a long path when you do come to the point of achieving your goal uh the victory is is 10 times as sweet yeah it feels it feels that you achieved more than just with stepping your fingers that's true exactly so that's why that's why the pain and the moments that it doesn't happen the way you want are also working for you yeah you were you were talking about about money and sometimes the money is a dirty word we subject we had a webinar that we call it the m words because well we're designing us some of them are overworked and debate although we have the best intentions but it's a creative thing we're not all entrepreneurs so uh we have to deal with it that's all all these beliefs that we hear so many times so how you're telling a kind of writing exercise of kind of creating your future base I heard about that one so let me let's let's make it practical because you were talking about oh oh thinking about money and then I got this abundance and money was flowing into my pockets that sounds great it sounds people love to have that but how do you work you have you have an exercise for that right yeah yeah exactly yeah so so something that I also got taught um by um Joseph McLendon who was also on the stage with uh with Tony Robbins yeah I was at a seminar in 2017 called the a factor yeah why did I go there because in the entire year of 2017 I was having this belief system that you were just talking about I needed to work hard to achieve the results as an entrepreneur and so I was working 60 sometimes 80 hours a week to be able to achieve results within my business but in the entire year 2017 I only made 2 000 Euros of Revenue and you know my money was running low and I was thinking like maybe I'm not able to do this maybe I'm not an entrepreneur maybe I should find a job and all these kind of thoughts started coming into my mind my beliefs all sorts of limiting beliefs indeed but then I decided you know what I'm gonna actually visit uh this seminar and see if I I can get some information that will help me because again if you know what you want and you know why you want it those two elements foreign
s that seem so difficult so if you have those limiting beliefs and they're they're like stuck to me and I'm like oh maybe I can't do this but I really want to because and you have this immense vision of something that you want to achieve it makes it so much easier to break through those layers so for me I was like okay now I'm going to continue trying it and so I went to the seminar and during the seminar Joseph taught us to jump on a on a on a on a trampoline because when you're making this upward downward movement you can also do it like on a Skippy ball or skipping rope where you're making these up down movement actually the gray matter between your left and your right hemisphere are actually connecting more intensely which means that you're left and right side of the brain are connecting more and your left side of the brain is what you relate to the intentions the pictures that you create the right side of the brain is related to the emotions that you're experiencing so in the moment that they're more connected of course if you look at the formula I just shared before your reality is the intentions the thoughts that you're consistently thinking plus the or times the emotional coherence that you're experiencing that you're feeling so having that connection helps and then what I would do after that after I came back from the seminar every single morning I uh jumped on my my trampoline I had a small one by one meter rebounder in my in my room you know yeah and I started jumping on it whilst listening to The Lion King so I would like jump on the trampoline and it would start like
and I would like start getting into this Flow State into a higher frequency right I didn't know that back then yet but I was just doing that and then during the interlude of the song I started reading out my future pace and the future pace is basically a script of your future self that future potential you that you want to attract into your reality so for me at that point in time my business was teaching communication skills within companies to have employees work better together um and so I was you know imagining and have it writing out of my future Pace I'm so happy that every time I call a potential client they want to talk to me and I sit around the table and they're so excited about everything that I shared that they're within 20 minutes they say yeah let's go and do this and I and the money is just flowing in and everything is coming together and and I was really stepping into that reality feeling it whilst you know that's why the importance of the movement the music all getting all several different sensory inputs at the same time so I could really start feeling it and not just thinking it and every morning with the same intensity the same intention and after doing that for three months after only making 2 000 Euros in the entire period of 2017 in the first two months of 2018. I made 33k and I didn't change anything in my Approach of sales I didn't change anything in my way of explaining the entire concept or anything like that suddenly people were saying yes and and that's for me the moment that I realized wait there must be something more that is actually guiding us or helping us to achieve these things and what does luck actually mean you know yeah these kind of questions yeah it's it's amazing what you attract if you start to believe what you what you deserve huh it's it's really it's a mind game and that's that's makes it so hard so if you want to start with with with writing with designing your own new reality because that's what everybody wants see you you really we really need to feel it we need to describe it because as you said if you know your wider how is easy yeah that's that's the easy spot and normally I was really frustrating we all all the time we ask how can I do it how can I achieve it how can I get more money how can I get new clients always how how then you have to watch then you have to watch Frozen a little bit more often you have to you have to let you have to let it go you have to let it go oh yeah I don't want some of them yeah so you're into the Lion King and Frozen they're really oh yeah yeah oh definitely Disney is is has some amazing lessons in there there's so much Consciousness even the Frozen two even shows that water has Consciousness which is something that I truly believe and then they show it in the movie and I'm like nice and it's a really amazing way to to program of course because consciously you're focused on the story so subconsciously all these belief systems are actually coming into your system and now of course the question is what kind of uh things are being programmed into you and and a lot of the Disney movies at least they have a lot of Beauty in it as well um you know some belief systems might not as be as smart but okay uh there's there's a lot of wisdom at least in it as well yeah yeah and you know the phrase of Walt Disney of course yeah if you get three minutes you can do it yeah yeah if you can dream yeah exactly use that one because it's it's it is if you already created it in your mind a lot of I all the ideas start this way if if it's tonight it all starts with an idea and then when you already have the idea that these are already thoughts it's already energy so you just just have to manifest it but take action on it is it because you need to take action on it you can't wait yeah yeah and and just to I'm gonna go into that one just to finish off what you were sharing before about how important the why is and letting go of the how that you know that's why I said the Let It Go part yeah it's really not your task to figure out with your mind what the how is you really want to tune into what you want and the feeling which is the why behind it and if you tune into that and you said put yourself into a receptive mode which means sit down relax get into a quiet State of Mind allow yourself to tune a little bit deeper into Alpha and Theta then and then you can ask a question and you receive the answer the how comes to you and then it can literally be this this this Flow State you enter into and within half an hour you have this entire plan right now yeah for some people so for some people this is maybe totally new yeah this is this is this is maybe still Abracadabra but I know my first experience with with this visualizations manifestations it created it's creating your new thoughts your new beliefs so if you have a lot if you have several experiences in this kind of magical Universal field and energy and you experience a lot of these flows you start believing in it you know how to tap into those flows and it's becoming a new reality so really for the people who think well Jim began a trampoline uh thinking affirmations about my new future be crazy do it put the Disney film on put the put the Lion King on or a kind of uh guilty pleasure uh guilty pleasure sing a song list it's working as well is it you just need to go in the right flow is it yeah and I mean even if somewhere you have a skeptical mind on all of this you know try it out once and see if you feel better because manifestation is instant why is it instant well maybe the physical manifestation will take some time because the frequency that you're tuning into is still thought which is a very fast frequency and matter is a slower frequency and it takes time for a fast frequency to slow down and more determination speeds up that process but it's it's always going to take some time but the manifestation is instant because you feel it right now and isn't that the reason we want everything we want don't we just want to have that beautiful house because of the comfort of it don't we want that amazing amount of clients because of the the freedom that the money provides us it's all about the feeling and you can tune into the feeling right now and if you have skepticism but you can at least start feeling it right now isn't that already enough of a win yeah so we need to start taking our dreams really serious is it
careful I'm careful with the word serious because yeah it's like if you take it seriously sometimes it also creates this like oh I have to take it seriously you know like like there's this cramping onto it and I I my mantra for Life Is Life is a playground so that's not that serious right it's like no you get you're you're the creator of the world you're God you're the universe what did you want to do what do you want to create where do you want to go into and play not because you need you know if you're trying to create a slide at the at the playground you know it's not like oh I need to create that slide but it's like oh it would be so fun to go off that slide not because I need it because but because it's a fun adventure to create something and that's pretty much why we're here on Earth just to create and to experience our Creations yeah yeah and as a designer you can you can phrase it like I need to design something to go down not even the slide yet yeah it's yeah the apple is freedom yeah yeah so great yeah so that playfulness will help yeah the playfulness is very important I think that um like it of course it's it's both important right because seriousness in the way of actually putting your intention and keeping your focus on it is also important so that you don't continuously distract yourself and go from here to there and try to avoid certain feelings in that sense you can be serious by having a very clear Vision or why that you're actually trying to achieve yeah but it's more about Clarity instead of yeah yeah and I would say that most of our society is way too serious so I prefer to sprinkle a little bit more Disney playground around so that people are a little bit more in love with themselves because from there everything flows yeah great we had that remind me of Grant dutson who was in the show with uh with how to wow he's he's an easy Child by Art still he's creating all this this WOW experience and uh for him is the whole world is a play Garden yeah so I agree yeah so uh yeah well wonderful Reuben uh you teach me a lot I I had a lot of experience with all this stuff and they in some way they told me the signs behind it but I I gotta maybe because I'm well still a few uh years further than those trainings I get more clarity on what it is how it feels how it works and so yeah you give me another layer and uh I do hope you gave people a listen right now right now and uh who are joining us live here that uh we'll add another layer to their reality into to their life to design their life so how as the last question how how do you start with this what what can we do we are listening to the podcast right now and then we continue with our work our day or we finish our day whatever the time you are listening right now but how what's next what's the first Next Step yeah the most uh I think the first next step I can actually do let's do a little exercise so I want to ask everybody to take a moment to actually if you have the possibility if you're driving in your car please don't um keep your eyes open then but you know if you have the possibility uh take a take a seat sit up straight and actually close your eyes for a second and with your eyes closed take a moment to briefly breathe deeply into your heart
and breathe out of your mouth
just letting go of everything that happened before this and it's gonna happen after this Breathe Again deeply into your heart
and let it go out of your mouth
and now I want you to visualize that you're in a completely white space foreign see yourself standing in that completely white space
and we've been talking today a bit about magic about Abracadabra so what I want you to do is to imagine yourself holding a wand a magic wand in your hand and since you do have a magic wand with that wand you can create any really any reality that you want so I want to ask you to swing that wand and to Envision into that white space a reality that you want to live
if it's more money if it's love it's more clients whatever that thing is that you're truly Desiring allow it to take shape in front of you
and when you're seeing that beautiful picture that thing that you're designing in front of you become aware of the details how does it look
what are the objects in the space what were the people in the space if there are any people how do they look
and make the colors that you're seeing even a little bit more Vivid more colorful
very good
and whilst you're seeing this new reality I want to ask you to really step into it seeing it from your own eyes if you weren't already doing so
look around you see the places the people
and maybe you even hear some sound maybe there's some kind of a music maybe it's sound of nature or other people
really see yourself in this reality as if it's happening right now you're there how does that feel
and if you are living in that reality
this new person that you have become how does he or she talk to him or herself what do you say to yourself what are the thoughts that you have what is something that you can say right now to yourself that you're proud or grateful for about the new reality that you're living in
just hear yourself saying that
very good now become aware of the feeling that you have within your body how does this situation that you now stepped into feel where in your body can you feel this feeling maybe it's a feeling of Love gratitude Pride Happiness joy whatever it is feel where you feel it in your body maybe it's your heart maybe it's your stomach maybe it's in different places Focus your attention on the space where you're feeling
and be aware of if this feeling is standing still or if it's moving or pulsating or vibrating
very good
and now check in if this feeling had a color which color is it
just let the first thing that pops into your mind be the color and visualize that whatever that color is visualize that color in that specific place in your body and I want to ask you to breathe deeply into that spot in your body so in
and out of your mouth
and then we're going to do that one more time together but now whilst you breathe out I want you to visualize that this beautiful color that you're feeling in this one specific part of your body or maybe two that it's it spreads all around your body that you start feeling it throughout every single part of your body as soon as you start breathing out so please breathe in with me in
and out of your mouth and feel how it's spreading through the rest of your body through your legs through your feet through your trunk through your arms through your neck through your head and even see this color spreading around your body in your electromagnetic field and feel yourself shifting
shifting your emotional state shifting your electromagnetic field tuning into this new potential this new future you
and now slowly moving your hands and your feet around
coming back into this present moment back into the space and slowly opening your eyes
I mean that's where you start you start with really tuning into that new potential stop taking your five senses surroundings outside environment so seriously because it's nothing else but just a manifestation from yesterday everything you thought yesterday and the yesterdays before that and right now you're in the in the generous present moment able to create any really any reality that you want by tuning yourself into it with your mind and with your heart and then things can start flowing more easily and generously for you if you continue practicing this
wow Reuben if this was not Beyond interior design I don't know anymore this was beyond nice great I felt it and uh I saw the other people I sneakily sneaky watching at the the last few seconds at my screen the people were joining great lovely to see it yeah and great yeah yeah you showed it it works even online doing it together this works yeah yeah thanks a lot Reuben great conversation yeah I agree thank you yeah continuing uh with uh designing our own lives creating new realities and uh yeah coming up with the West inductions because that's the energy to start with that's it thanks a lot yeah and thanks a lot from uh I see some people in the chat